“Abigail: No Victim of Circumstances”
What is a  peacemaker? The dictionary says, “a person, group, or nation that tries  to make peace, especially by reconciling parties who disagree, quarrel,  or fight.”
When I looked  up the phrase “Peacemaker in history” on Google, I came upon an  interesting article. Someone had asked who people thought where the ten  best peacemakers from history. The answer included men like the Dalai  Lama, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., Mother Theresa and even  Santa Clause.   Of course we know that the greatest peacemaker is Jesus  Christ. He said, “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called  the children of God” (Matthew 5:9). And one of the names given for Jesus  in Isaiah is Prince of Peace. The story of Abigail beautifully  illustrates how the spirit of a peacemaker transforms potential victims  into victors. The story is found in 1 Samuel chapter 25. 
After the death  of Samuel, and while the people were still in mourning for the prophet,  David took the opportunity to find greater protection and security in  the wilderness of Paran. While there, he was among the flocks of a very  rich man named Nabal. David and his men were good to the shepherds. They  didn’t hurt them, or take anything from them. 
At shearing  time, David sent a few of his men to Nabal to ask for some  provisions. Nabal treated the young men badly, calling them run-away  servants, and acting as if he didn’t know who David was. He sent them  away empty handed. When David heard this he was very angry. Taking  two-thirds of his fighting force, he set out for Nabal’s house to show  him a thing or two. Meanwhile one of the servants ran to Abigail,  Nabal’s wife and told her about the young men’s request for help. He  also told how her husband had treated them. Quickly she took a large  amount of food, loaded it on donkeys and set out to meet David and his  army. 
“She  met them in a covert of a hill.” And when Abigail saw David, she  hasted, and lighted off the ass, and fell before David on her face, and  bowed herself to the ground, and fell at his feet, and said, Upon me, my  lord, upon me let this iniquity be: and let thine handmaid, I pray  thee, speak in thine audience” (1 Samuel 25:24). Abigail addressed David  with as much reverence as though speaking to a crowned monarch. Nabal  had scornfully exclaimed, “Who is David?” but Abigail called him, “my  lord.” With kind words she sought to soothe his irritated feelings, and  she pleaded with him in behalf of her husband. With nothing of  ostentation or pride, but full of the wisdom and love of God, Abigail  revealed the strength of her devotion to her household; and she made it  plain to David that the unkind course of her husband was in no wise  premeditated against him as a personal affront, but was simply the  outburst of an unhappy and selfish nature.” 
--Ellen White, Patriarchs and Prophets , page 666
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Abigail  admitted that what Nabal had done was wrong and yet still pleaded for  his life. We, too, should always hate the sin and yet love the sinner. 
Abigail  met David with respect, showing him honor and deference, and pleaded  her cause eloquently. While not excusing her husband’s insolence, she  pleaded for his life. She also revealed the fact that she was not only a  discreet woman, but a godly woman, acquainted with the works of ways of  God with David.                                                      --Ellen White, Manuscript 12, 1891
“A soft answer turneth away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1).
Abigail  did not take to herself the credit of this reasoning to turn David from  his hasty purpose, but gave to God the honor and the praise. She then  offered her rich provision as a peace offering to the men of David, and  still pleaded as if she herself were the one who had so excited the  resentment of the chief.   These words could have come only from the  lips of one who had partaken of the wisdom from above. The piety of  Abigail, like the fragrance of a flower, breathed out all unconsciously  in face and word and action. The Spirit of the Son of God was abiding in  her soul. Her speech, seasoned with grace, and full of kindness and  peace, shed a heavenly influence.
--Ellen White, Patriarchs and Prophets , Page 666
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Here is the  secret to how Abigail could be a peacemaker, how she could speak words  of peace and wisdom in the face of conflict. “The Spirit of the Son of  God was abiding in her soul.” This peace is for us as well. Letting  Jesus live out his life within us, we can be peacemakers. “With men this  is impossible, but with God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26). A  cup filled with sweet water cannot spill one bitter drop, no matter how  violently jolted.
“Blessed  are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God”  (Matthew 5:9). Would that there were many more like this woman of  Israel, who would soothe the irritated feelings, prevent rash impulses,  and quell great evils by words of calm and well-directed wisdom.
 --Ellen White, Patriarchs and Prophets , page 667
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He  who has the meek and lowly spirit of Christ will be a peacemaker. Such a  spirit provokes no quarrel, gives back no angry answer. It makes the  home happy, and brings a sweet peace that blesses all around.                                                                          --Ellen White, The Story of Jesus , page 62
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A story told by  Arthur Maxwell illustrates our point. A young boy attended evangelistic  meetings. He gave his heart to Jesus. He went home and told his mother  what he had heard, and how wonderful Jesus was. He begged her to go with  him to the next meeting. His mother became angry and slapped him hard  across the face. The boy remained respectful and kind, though he was  shedding a few tears. The mother marked the ongoing changes in her son’s  life, and decided that she wanted what he had. She went with him to the  meetings and eventually gave her heart to Jesus also.
“Christ’s  followers are sent to the world with the message of peace. Whoever, by  the quiet, unconscious influence of a holy life, shall reveal the love  of Christ; whoever, by word or deed, shall lead another to renounce sin  and yield his heart to God is a peacemaker” (Ellen White, In Heavenly Places, Page35). Let us choose, with Jesus’ help, to be peacemakers today.
--Jnt
 
